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#21 dowedoit

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Posted 22 June 2013 - 08:34 AM

Maybe the OP should just delete this thread as I'm sure she did not get the response she expected.  She could contact Triple H for assistance if needed.  I think she is young and probably a bit immature/naive - we've seen others here make similar mistakes.  


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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:11 AM

My mare is house and fed by a breeder that I know she is interested in me breeding her as she wants to see what we could get out of her the foal would be staying with her unless and until I am on my feet I do not expect you to understand my circumstances how ever I would ask that you allow for the possibility that you don't know the whole story.  


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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:17 AM

My mare is house and fed by a breeder that I know she is interested in me breeding her as she wants to see what we could get out of her the foal would be staying with her unless and until I am on my feet I do not expect you to understand my circumstances how ever I would ask that you allow for the possibility that you don't know the whole story.  

Madam,

Good afternoon. You started this thread. You put your information on this thread that you started. Because you started this conversation, if you do not want others to make conjectures or assumptions then it is your responsibility to provide the reader with the "whole story."

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#24 rottpup

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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:29 AM

wow you know I don't see a baby as a consequence and how presumptuous of you, you automatically think im easy. What if id been raped??? what if... I think that would make you look pretty bad. also I have been with the same person for 2 years I just graduated form Everett community College with honors our house was foreclosed on and I have been actively looking for a job for a year and a half. I wasn't asking for a hand out just a hand up. because I don't know what to do anymore I try and try and nothing works if you have a job available I would jump at the chance to take it but other wise get a life and stop harassing people less fortunate then you.

 

Or how about Chastity... no side effects (breast cancer, future reproductive problems, etc), no possibility of STDs, no 'inconvenient' babies (or worse, babies murdered), and less broken hearts. Since she's gotten this far, I'm glad she is keeping her baby, since she has got to live with the consequences of her actions now--but I find this hard to understand, since according to her website she has a stallion & several mares, that she would be homeless. 



And as for internet access, there are library's and McDonalds offers free wifi so at least no what your talking about before you speak.



i went through the Youth re-engagement program for school and my parents are drug addicts anything else you would like to make ####ing assumptions about.

Still giggling from the comments, BUT

 

#1: Situational or not, it is no one's business but her own what her sexual habits are, ie. birth control or not (or failed, hey, it's known to happen), sex before marriage or not (it's not uncommon anymore for people to not get married), a mistake, rape, the list goes on. I don't personally think that, even in this situation where it's obviously a crock of BS (like BFF said... "destitute with internet and horse  :lol: ") that a comment such as is very tasteful.

 

#2: Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll. u think we dum? 

 

Look, I know times are tough, but be ###### THANKFUL that you HAD parents to take good care of you and give you a soft cushy life consisting of rainbow farting unicorn dolls, a nutritious meal, and an education (because you clearly have one with that English). Many of us are not so much as GIVEN that pleasure. Some of us grew up on a bowl of Ramen a day and were lucky if there was a 2 liter of Pepsi in the fridge and a bag of chips as the only means of nutrition, hoping that maybe we wouldn't go to sleep crying every night, and maybe when we woke up in the morning for school we could sneak out quietly enough to not have an unpleasant encounter with the parent.  :dry:  You're seriously trying to use your "being sheltered" as an excuse for ###### up? Excuse me, but, coming from someone that was expected to be a crack wh****, there is no reason for you to be asking anyone for any hand outs. Suppose you are young and pregnant, ok, mistakes happen. Do you know what that means? It means when you go to get student loans and fill out your FAFSA (free application for federal student aid), that you will be GIVEN all the money you need to get an education and live while you do it, so long as you work. Remember, flipping burgers for $7.25/hour and building some sort of resume is a better option than sitting on your hiney and making no money because you're too good for it; and trust me, where there's a will, there's a way. 

 

I'd say excuse me for the rant... but don't. I hope it hits you, and I hope it hits you hard, and I hope it really makes you think about the next time you'd like to cry wolf.

 

 

ETA: I'd also like to know why you never did the dishes or your own laundry if they got that bad... If I wanted clothes or a clean plate to eat off of, I did it myself as soon as I was old enough to reach the knobs on the washer from one of these:

 


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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:33 AM

You are on this public forum, asking for those of us who work HARD to keep our horses and homes to give you money...

 

I think I've read enough to know that you are ballsy.  I've scratched, worked hard and done without most of my life to finally get what I've got.  I still work 50-70 hours a week to "live the dream".  You're correct, I don't know the whole story and I'm not sure I care to hear it.

 

Go get a job, your GED, whatever it takes to make your goal you have set for yourself.  Sacrifice, do without, help others and pray to Jesus to give you strength to continue.  I did.  I love my home and horses...I have suffered and sacrificed for my dream.  If I lose it all tomorrow then I have no one to blame but myself.

 

I wish you the best.  And remember, you are the only person responsible for your happiness and success in life, and for the welfare of the child you are about to bring into this world.  Stop the "pity me" approach and help yourself instead of expecting others to pick up after you.

 

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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:37 AM

I'd suggest turning your focus inward first when looking for help. You might be surprised at what you can do for yourself before resorting to relying on others. Good luck to you.

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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:38 AM

I couldn't fit my whole story in a book, so sorry. I didn't know there were so many mean people on ABN. and so you know I have applied every where around here I couldn't even get a job at McDonalds I tried. I would much rather flip burgers then ask for help. but all the jobs around here are flooded with apps  

Madam,

Good afternoon. You started this thread. You put your information on this thread that you started. Because you started this conversation, if you do not want others to make conjectures or assumptions then it is your responsibility to provide the reader with the "whole story."

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Posted 23 June 2013 - 11:47 AM

i didn't expect anyone to give up anything. you know if people gave one cent i would have felt like people cared every penny builds to something more. i no how to work hard. you could ask anyone who knows my even my meth head parents but if no one hires you then you don't have the opportunity to do so.



i know this will probably get my account deleted but good bye


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Posted 23 June 2013 - 01:10 PM

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Posted 23 June 2013 - 01:47 PM

Have you considered enlisting in one of the branches of the Armed Forces (i.e., the US Army, Navy, or Air Force) after your baby is born?  I was uneducated; poor; from an abusive family -my father is and was a personality disordered prescription drug addict; working fast-food, and had no hope that things would ever get better when I enlisted in the Army. The Army gave me what I needed to enter the middle class. All I had to do to be successful in the Army was be willing to work hard, do what I was told, and not complain.

Best Wishes,

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Edited by californianinkansas, 23 June 2013 - 01:49 PM.

PA Hi-Ly Visible: [(by Magnum Psyche) PA Hi-Noon x Takara Padrona (by *Padron)], frighteningly intelligent 2005 chestnut Arabian gelding.

Sterling, aka "Fluffy": mellow and bombproof grade Arabian gelding. His putative identity is Sterling Son (by Baraka Zouheir), pending submission of the DNA test kit.

Moonie the Mob Boss: mini palomino gelding, was the head of a large drug cartel in his previous lifetime.